OUR JOURNEY FROM THE BEGINNING TO TODAY
- Matjaž Zalaznik
- Jan 20
- 5 min read
This time I will write another concise post covering the events and the scene from the beginning to the present day.
OUR BEGINNINGS
The idea for the events came about a few years ago, when the swinger scene was becoming increasingly dark, or there was less and less going on and less and less people visiting. At that time, friends from the swing scene founded a group that was more seriously intended for swingers to socialize and to which they invited us, but unfortunately these socializing didn't last long and so this story slowly died out. We always had the desire to organize events, but the naked swinger scene seemed a bit boring to us because we are not fans of drinking and smoking for half the night and then, when everyone is drunk, jumping on each other and doing action, we were never just in the mood for naked sex because even then we liked to spice up sex with something else.
And so the idea was born and soon after our first event followed, which brought a refreshing twist to the classic swinger scene. Since I myself have always been a supporter of the BDSM scene and a bit of a submissive, we had always organized some kind of show at swinger events before that, where my wife would whip me in front of everyone, and I always enjoyed listening to the audience sigh as if they were tied to a cross. So in this moment the idea also got its name, because we wanted to combine our passion for BDSM and sex. Our first group "BDSM/Swing Combined" was born, I know that you think the name is not the happiest, but it was already the peak of my imagination at the time.
This is how the story of our events began, and the first events took place in our friend's rented space and were a mix of swing and domination.
But since we were driven by passion and wanted to make something more out of it, of course we didn't stop there. At that time, the passion for the Kinky scene and Domination was also great and I always wanted the premises to be purposefully decorated in BDSM and swing style, but since this area was still very hidden and not exactly booming in our country at that time, it was a bit harder to get this idea going and it soon led to the fact that these premises were no longer enough for us because our friend couldn't deal with it much anymore and the price of rent and costs was increasing and we were left without a place for events, but where there is a will, there is also a power and because the number of our members was also increasing, we quickly realized that we would have to continue holding events because we had no intention of giving up so quickly. With a little will and quite a bit of searching, we managed to rent a hunting lodge for the next event, which of course we had to completely redecorate to meet our requirements for the event and at the same time celebrate its anniversary. The event was truly great and gave us renewed momentum to move forward.
After this event, there was a bit of a lull because we didn't have the space or financial capacity to rent a place, but we were definitely thinking about the scene going forward. Since it had been quite some time since the last event, we decided to take a bit of a risk and rented a more luxurious house with a large swimming pool near Zagreb. Of course, such a project is not cheap and we did a little research beforehand, and although there wasn't a lot of demand, we still had enough people to cover the costs of the event and organize our next swinger event, which left quite a mark on our scene because with this event we took our scene to a higher level, and let me say that the action at the event lasted more than 10 hours, which was already a bit incredible at the time.
At the same time, we acquired a house in Sonajem, where the beginning of what we represent today began. Of course, we still continued with swinger events colored with the BDSM scene, but from here on, the events became our regular event and for three years we organized them at least once a month, sometimes even every 14 days, and the attendance and events at the events were top-notch and incredible. We also started an individual scene during this period, although at the very beginning only with Domination, but in the last year we also introduced two erotic massages, which took our scene and events off the ground and made us realize that this is our lifestyle and that we can no longer imagine life without it.
But since even a dog dies in Spain, this path was not strewn with roses for us, as our roommates made our lives quite miserable, although we have to thank them, because if it weren't for them, we probably wouldn't be who we are today.
So after three years, our journey ended there too and we were left without a space again, but with strong support from our clients and friends from the swing and BDSM scene.
The next 6 months were a difficult period because we really struggled to get to the space, which this time is completely our own and where we are now. When we finally managed to establish the space at least partially, so that we could restart our story, something happened that really affected many of us and that was the Corona period, which almost buried us in 2 years, but as they say, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger and so we also got stronger and took advantage of the crisis to establish an association with which we intend to help everyone who wants to have a better erotic and sex life and who wants to improve relationships with their partners. We also changed our name and became world-famous as KD - Black Rose or the Cultural Association for the Promotion of Eroticism Črna Vrtnica . During this time, we have created a large video collection that contains almost all genres of erotica, we have upgraded the individual scene, added quite a few of our completely unique erotic massages that have become synonymous with our work and are known all over the world, and we still remained faithful to the events, which since Corona are no longer classical swingers. We have divided the events into educational workshops, relaxing sexy events and events dedicated to diversity so that everyone can feel welcome and accepted with us.
I could go on and on about everything that happened, but I think that in this concise story I have shown you what a thorny path we had to overcome to be able to offer you all this today and help you with your erotic adventures.
Let me take this opportunity to thank everyone who helped us in one way or another on our journey, whether with their hands or with moral support and with their visits to us.
We hope that we can continue and develop our story together for a long time to come.
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